It's raining heavily this morning and I was stuck in a traffic jam at Mines area. I tried to go out early from house since I needed to reach office by 8.30am for monthly assembly - unsuccessful. Imagine, it was already 8.20am and I was still on the road so obviously I was late again for the meeting. Damn it!
It was cold when I was in the car that was totally un-moved so I took my time (I already late mind you..) and listened to Hot FM radio channel. Farah Fauzana was on air for "topik pagi" and she raised up some interesting topics to discuss that morning. It all started when she shared some information in a newspaper and the statement was some sort like below :
"Menurut kajian di Britain, lelaki lebih cenderung memilih wanita yg cantik namun kurang cerdik, berbanding memilih wanita yg cerdik namun tidak cantik untuk mendapat perhatian".
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This statement got an instant feedbacks from the audiences, most of it agreed with the statement. One of the caller, a man gave his opinion that men are usually tends to get pretty women just for fun because since they're lack of knowledge it is easy for men to control. But for wife candidate, they will definitely choose a beauty with brain. Followed by his call were numerous calls from men that agreed with him. Im totally agreed with the caller as well but cant help to feel a bit annoyed. No matter if we are women with brain or not, we still got feeling. We're not a doll to be played with. I would like to refer those men as a a person who actually got a low mentality. For a well educated person, they'll not judge people by their appearance, and make fun of it but will respect women entirely.
Feedbacks from women were absolutely opposite from men. One caller emotionally asked why men didn't ever look a women by heart. Beauty will not last long... it's a pure heart and kindness that stays. But for all girls, ladies and women, thats a fact of life. Men already confirmed that beauty or appearance really matters (even not all men do agreed). To get beauty with brain is a bonus, but have you heard a man praised their friend to have a smart or kind girlfriend. There is no "wahh.. tahniah la kau, untung dapat awek pandai and beriman" Hell no!! The one that is quite familiar "wahh untung kau dapat awek cun and sexy"... Huhuhu thats why I called it "satu kebenaran yang menyedihkan". SO PATHETIC!!
But for me, we're all human, and as a human we're not perfect. God created things in varieties; there's smart people, beauty, good and HE also created things with opposite, there are woman and man, good and bad, angle and demon to form a balance in this life. So don't ever feel down if U're not perfect coz we're a god's creation. To blame our "imperfectness" is similar to blame god. Find our strength and use it. For the above case, not all beauty wins. There're still pretty ladies who're single and lots of ladies that we called "kurang cantik" already got married and happily with their family. I believed there is a good man out there who looks a woman into their heart, accepts her as she is, and appreciates her the fullest. Remember that good women are meant for good men, and vice versa. ALLAH ITU MAHA ADIL LAGI BIJAKSANA .....
It was cold when I was in the car that was totally un-moved so I took my time (I already late mind you..) and listened to Hot FM radio channel. Farah Fauzana was on air for "topik pagi" and she raised up some interesting topics to discuss that morning. It all started when she shared some information in a newspaper and the statement was some sort like below :
"Menurut kajian di Britain, lelaki lebih cenderung memilih wanita yg cantik namun kurang cerdik, berbanding memilih wanita yg cerdik namun tidak cantik untuk mendapat perhatian".
VS This statement got an instant feedbacks from the audiences, most of it agreed with the statement. One of the caller, a man gave his opinion that men are usually tends to get pretty women just for fun because since they're lack of knowledge it is easy for men to control. But for wife candidate, they will definitely choose a beauty with brain. Followed by his call were numerous calls from men that agreed with him. Im totally agreed with the caller as well but cant help to feel a bit annoyed. No matter if we are women with brain or not, we still got feeling. We're not a doll to be played with. I would like to refer those men as a a person who actually got a low mentality. For a well educated person, they'll not judge people by their appearance, and make fun of it but will respect women entirely.
Feedbacks from women were absolutely opposite from men. One caller emotionally asked why men didn't ever look a women by heart. Beauty will not last long... it's a pure heart and kindness that stays. But for all girls, ladies and women, thats a fact of life. Men already confirmed that beauty or appearance really matters (even not all men do agreed). To get beauty with brain is a bonus, but have you heard a man praised their friend to have a smart or kind girlfriend. There is no "wahh.. tahniah la kau, untung dapat awek pandai and beriman" Hell no!! The one that is quite familiar "wahh untung kau dapat awek cun and sexy"... Huhuhu thats why I called it "satu kebenaran yang menyedihkan". SO PATHETIC!!
But for me, we're all human, and as a human we're not perfect. God created things in varieties; there's smart people, beauty, good and HE also created things with opposite, there are woman and man, good and bad, angle and demon to form a balance in this life. So don't ever feel down if U're not perfect coz we're a god's creation. To blame our "imperfectness" is similar to blame god. Find our strength and use it. For the above case, not all beauty wins. There're still pretty ladies who're single and lots of ladies that we called "kurang cantik" already got married and happily with their family. I believed there is a good man out there who looks a woman into their heart, accepts her as she is, and appreciates her the fullest. Remember that good women are meant for good men, and vice versa. ALLAH ITU MAHA ADIL LAGI BIJAKSANA .....
SAILORMOON MAKE UP!!!
1 comment:
hee..well said!!gud post u have there..keep it cuminn..
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